I need help and guidance...FAST!
my parents have come back from living in florida at my request, since my mother got sick with alheimers and parkinsons. at the same time, they went into total financial devastation and presently have nothing. I wanted them to live close but before my father could find an affordable apartment, his lease was ending in florida and was coming to ny without a place to live. I felt sick about thinking that they had no place to go and invited them to live with me, my husband and my 2 teenagers in our apartmemnt until he found a place. We got them on senior housing lists in the areaand the plan was always for him to find a place and move.... but the waiting lists are forever. In the meantime, while my parents were here for a visit about 3 months before the scheduled move, my dad said, "maybe i won't look so quickly if we are all comfortable. at the time, all i could think about was relieving him and i too quickly responded "so don't." now they have been here for a month and every day i am becoming more and more depressed. I don't have any privacy and i feel like my life is over. I want to talk to my dad but i am so afraid that he will feel kicked out. My husband has been amazing but he would also like his life back. I know life will never be the same having them here but I need guidance in how/where to get them out. I want to be there for them but I am really unhappy living like this. I'm just not myself anymore and I am becoming increasingly sad and angry. Someone please help