Gerontology trained staff for seniors.

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Most facilities are overlooking individuals with a special focus in gerontology to serve our seniors. Marketers, salespersons, and sometimes nurses with no older adult experience are "leaders" and administrators in personal cares, LTC'S , and many other senior services....we expect focused training for those who work with children, why not our Elders?


How is this different from those who allegedly lead other for profit businesses? Check out the background of those "managing" or formerly managing some of the major retail stores, including Penney's, and K-Mart after it emerged from Ch. 11.

I don't necessarily disagree with your points, though, but I wouldn't draw conclusions on someone's else's assumption w/o specific validation and support. I do wonder how you determined that "most facilities are overlooking individuals with a special focus in gerontology..." Did you do a survey, or on what do you base this conclusion? Some of your comments are very broad based, especially those in the second sentence of your post.

This may or may not be an issue; I think it would take a detailed survey project conducted by a reputable company or institution to draw conclusions that are reliable though.

However, this isn't an unusual type of question for this kind of forum. People have experience with a limited number of institutions and draw broad conclusions from that.

I would be interested though in reading of your proposal to address this situation, moving beyond the "why not" to the "how to."
Aging in America is treated like a disease that must be prevented at all cost. We live in a culture that values sex appeal, youth, full lips, taught skin, thick hair, and muscle tone. We invest in children because they are the future. It's easy to agree that children deserve lots of resources to reach their full potentials and contribute to society. Many parents spare no expense when it comes to their kids. Some even go into debt for them. On the other end of the spectrum are decline and death. Old people who are stubborn, demented, incontinent, or frail are not the ones AARP ever puts in any of their magazines. I'd like to see a culture shift where aging and dying with dignity are recognized as normal parts of the lifespan rather than controversial ideas.
Monica, good point more workers need to learn about aging, and the different aspects, and learn what the adult children are going through.

Where my Dad had lived, my gut feeling was the head person of this one nationwide complex never lived through the average caring of an elder, otherwise she wouldn't present herself the way she did. She failed to noticed that many of us adult children were seniors ourselves and could not snap our fingers to get things done regarding our elder parents.

Now the head person of the Memory Care, same national chain, was very caring and would listen... turned out she had not long ago was trying to help her own elderly parents... knew the difficulties of emptying and selling the family home, etc. What a huge difference it made for me knowing she had been there, done that.

Now I am not saying that every employee who works for a elder venue needs to have personal experience, that would be like saying that all school teachers or baby doctors need to have children of their own.

One thing our local newspaper, The Washington Post, has been doing is every now and then have personal caregiving articles related to the elderly. And financial articles, like today the downfall of giving one child the inheritance instead of equally dividing among all the children. The articles are excellent. But I feel the only ones to read those articles are those of us in that situation. A 35 year old would over look it, unless they are elder caregivers.

I remember years ago there was a TV series where a wonderful British woman named Jo [I think] would visit a home to help parents deal with out of control young children. Even though I never had children, I found the series interesting. It would be good to have something similar for helping with elders at home... but I realize that an elder with memory issues could not consent to be on a series, but maybe an actor replacing that person. Something to think about.
NYDaughterInLaw, I agree with you regarding the commercials. There was one for borrowing money so that Grandmother could come live with the family's newly expanded house. Well, Grandma looked like she was only in her 50's and was dressed in a tennis outfit.

And the anti-aging skin cream commercials, yikes one of the actresses was only in her 30's. I have to chuckle with one commercial that says the product will make me look 10 years younger. How about a product that makes me look 40 years younger???

At least with the Depend commercials they are using younger actors in their 40's and 50's to promote the product, thus changing how we view the product.

monica -- no doubt we need more individuals with training in gerontology. I would like to see the average physician have more training in that area. What is suitable for a younger person is not always suitable for a senior.

GA - good points.

NYdil - so agree about society emphasizing youth. It does nothing to prepare us for what will inevitably come if we live into our senior years. Lets get real about this. The media does mislead.

ff I have to agree about many ads. They are laughable. How about telling it closer to how it is for many of us. I think the idea of having an expert come into a home and give advice on how to manage behaviour problems, or even to interview people with problem seniors and give suggestions would be great. I believe it is a more and more relevant topic in society.

I hate the banner at the top of the page that "falls" down as your are scrolling. Isn't there a better way to advertise Namenda?
NYDIL, addressing your last statement...are you familiar with the art quilts of Deidre Scherer? She's known for her graphic and realistic portrayals of older people, including those in the last stages of life.

Regardless of how much negativity may be generated by the challenges of old age, I challenge anyone to view her quilts with a dry eye.

Her "Surrounded by Friends and Family" is an especially emotional collection.
She brings old age and dying into the realm of creativity, and does so with gentleness, tenderness and a compassion that I've found compelling.

Google Deidre Scherer, then click on "Surrounded by Friends and Family." Keep a handkerchief or Kleenex handy. "Open Window" is especially powerful.
Golden, any thoughts on starting a movement to educate people to the realities of older age? I think your ideas are excellent. I do wonder though if many people just will never be, or allow themselves to be, educated on the details of elderly care and old life.

Maybe a continuing ed class would be a start. AAA might be a good supporter for seminars on caring for the elderly, not specifically but just generally.

When I hear questions by people who have no hands-on experience with elder care, I think that it's clear they have no idea how intricate, exhausting, time consuming and depressing it can be. I think education should focus on the up side though, and that could require more challenging thought and applications.

I TOTALLY agree about the ads. Buff men and women strolling romantically on the beach, and gregariously hopping about in various sports are so totally NOT representative of old age.
Garden - I was unfamiliar with Deidre Scherer's quilts until your post. I went to her website and she is truly a gifted artist. "Open Window" is beautiful on many levels, and I saved the image on my computer. Thank you for sharing her.

Garden - I think each of us is the movement because if not us, who? When we as caregivers lead by example in our own families and communities, we are influencing those around us whether they know it or not.

Even the indy living building where my inlaws live has brochures and online ads with models who have white hair but look only barely old enough to meet the 55+ age requirement. Meanwhile, in reality, the dining room is packed with rollators, scooters and walkers all around its perimeter.
I didn't read the replies, but I want to add -

I recently looked into what it would take to get a minimal level of training in gerontology in the U.S. I looked at a gerontology certification program (as opposed to a degree program) at the only university/college that offers such a program in the whole of Chicago. I learned that it's an add-on for a 4 year nursing degree. The majority of LPNs and CNAs that do hands on care for elderly are not 4-yr degree RNs. I thought it was unfortunate that the course wasn't offered to more people as a stand alone area of interest. It's approached as a specialty for higher-trained medical pros.

Just some thoughts.
As a nurse trained in the UK in the late 50's I received zero training in elder care in spite of working in geriatric areas. I am totally embarrassed by this situation and hope it has improved but doubt it because there is no magic cure for old age and few attracted to this speciality. I have learnt all or most of what I know from recent professional and personal experiences and especially this forum.
I worked with women and I do stress women as they were middle aged who came into eldercare with maybe a couple of years or less of on the job experience and tried to impose their beliefs on others. The same of course is true of mental health or assisting the poor and disadvantaged. Everyone has to have choices even if they choose not to make the correct choices as required by todays society.
Growing up poor but not realizing it and being old enough to remember the deprivations and rationing of WW11 I am naturally frugal and repurposing otherwise useless is very rewarding for me. But that is just me.
Those who care for the elderly and disabled need to be able to walk a mile in their shoes. I know old parents don't want to move out of their long term homes, take a bath, go to the Dr, eat nourishing meals, use assistive devices. We have to try and understand the reasons or these decisions and not paint ourselves into a corner where we make promises we have no hope of keeping without harming ourselves and our children.
Many on this forum have committed themselves to caring for elderly parents and have created lives of poverty and deprivation for themselves and still have parents who are unappreciative, angry, and generally unhappy. Whatever you do for them they are still that way so my question is why do it? You are not making a difference in their lives and they frequently behave hatefully towards you. So why do it? Is someone going to help you out when you are alone in your 80s - probably not. You will have to rely on the "system" to take care of you so why not make use of the "system' now to take care of your elders while there is still time to save your marriage and your children happiness?
This may sound cruel and heartless and I am in no way criticizing all the wonderful people out there who are making these sacrifices I just think there has to be a better way.
I guess I got of topic here but I really wanted to emphasize that everyone has choices and should not leave it too late to make them. I do understand that the system is broken and needs to be fixed but it is not just about money it is largely about education and everyone taking responsibility as best they can.
Think of someone like the Capt. Life has certainly not been kind to him but he managed to care for his mother and aunt and his own health using the recourses available to him. I bet his bank account is close to zero most of the time and he lives by the seat of his pants but little things give him pleasure and he uses resources presented to him to keep himself fed and sheltered as they cross his path. He gives to others and they in turn give to him. I don't know how often he bathes or changes his clothes but i bet he cleaned himself up to go and get that tat of Jake. He realizes what is important in this life and makes the effort to learn at every opportunity. We can all do well to follow his example and keep learning rather than tut tutting at his profanity.
I will shut up now everyone is different and can only do their best. Hugs to everyone. Oh and don't bother with the hate mail it just makes your fingers tired.

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