Finally came to blows.
Well last night I finally blocked my sister from being able to call me, blocked her from Facebook. Things have got so out of hand I don't have a clue what to do anymore. My mother finally came out and ask me not to send her to my sisters anymore, her former caregiver told me that when he was up there with her in the past things were not good but he did not really want to say anything. Come to find out my sister made the comment to him that she felt that she was treated poorly when she was a teenager so now it was time for pay backs. No one was treated bad at our house it was a typical 70's child raising, of course we were made to mind but for some reason my sister can come up with some crazy ideas that she was abused, I think she watches to much day time TV. Its finally time that I can go on vacation, I take Mom home once a year to her farm and home, we have a bunch of friends meeting us, she looks so forward to this, they are all girls that I grew up with and she has know them for 50 years, they all love her to death and call her Mom so you can imagine the excitement for her. Well its a 17 hour plus drive and I decided that the drive was way to much for mom to handle, so I bought a plain ticket for her and her care giver I felt it was in her best interest, I will drive with my husband and step son. Now my sister is throwing a fit and saying that I'm spending moms money frivolously I explained my reasoning and she told me "throw her in the back seat and do not spend the money" then she informed me that I'm to leaver her caregiver at home. Does anyone think that I'm out of line? I'm honestly looking for suggestions. I do not spend moms money frivolously, she contributes to grocery's once a month and that is all, there are four in the family so I though that was fair, other than that the only thing that I buy with her money is clothing for her, when she came to my house I don't believe she had bought any clothes in years so yes I have bought her some nice blouses and summer pants but they were not expensive, I'm a bargain hunter. My sister wants no responsibility but she sure will scream and yell about the money. The tickets cost 725.00 for 2 round trip tickets and it will be a three hour trip instead of a 17 hour trip, less confusion. My cousins will be there to pick her up, she loves them and they adore her. I'm just so disgusted at the moment any advice would be appreciated.