Feeling Guilty & Angry.
My parents moved from the north 3 years ago. Dadwas diagnosed with alzhiemer parkinsons. Mom has had a pacemaker and catarac surgery. I retired from teaching in June. This has been the longest 3 months of my life. I am there at 7:30 am and 7:30 pm every day to get my dad up and in bed at night. My husband takes him on Sat. And I take my Mom to run errands or fun stuff. I have no time to myself let alone spending time with my husband. We also have my daughter, son in law and grandson living with us. Life is very hectic. Mom refuses to have people in to help, has not finished filling out the Vet paper work and is in denial a lot of the time. She is forgetting a lot herself. I also have a sister who doesn't seem to care as they are now south with us. They visit once a year for 3 days. I am upset, and frustrated and don' t know where to go from here. Talking to my Mom is not an option as I have been made to feel this is my responsibility.