I feel more like my wife's father, than her husband.
It's like I'm setting all the rules. I miss talking about movies, TV, plays, etc. she can't I irritate anything. I spend my life making plans for her. Frankly, I'd like to meet a woman in the same situation to relate to. Everyone I meet at support groups is caring for an elderly parent or a much older spouse. They have a whole different set up problems.