My father-in-law controls my house.
I am a happily married man for 19 years. I have a wonderful wife and 2 beautiful children. My life I can honestly say is great throughout all the issues in our immediate lives. But now it has changed and it is killing me and my wife and it is placing a strain on our lives and my marriage.
My mother in law was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 1998 so what I did was I moved my mother-in-law and father-in-law into the apartment of my 2 family houseand I live in the master apartment with my family. I love my mother-in-law, I placed her on a pedestal she was a beautiful women in all respects. My father-in-law is a hypochondirac lunatic who has been dying of the same heart attack for 30 years. In 2004 my mother-in-law passed away and left me my inheritance- guess who. I guess when they say God only takes the good- it is true. I have 2 brother-in-laws who keep a distance.Yes there are sibilings. In 2006 I purchased a larger house where my father-in-law lives in the maids quarters of the main apartment with us. His issues are getting the best of me. Such things include running the AC all winter when its cold outside- okay I understand his hypochondria gets the best of him so I close his bedroom door and he gets indignant. He is a fussy eater and always cooked for himself because of his lunancy. Note: what he makes will make a billy goat vomit. In 2011 he fell while i was on vacation with my family and now has limited mobility due to the fall and age ( 87 ). We took the keys away from him so he cannot drive and the argument starts every so often. My wife cooks for him but to stop him from cooking and his limited mobility we shut the gas stove off during the day. He is very unsociable and refuses to go outside and demands my wife drive him around at his convenience and his terms. He complained the other day that his throat was bothering him - and he demanded the keys for his car for the doctor I told him I will be going out shortly with my son and I wil take hiom to phamarmacist. Yelling abuses at me in my own house he goes outside and leaves my front door open of my house to go to a neighbor and ask if the neighbor will take him to Brooklyn to see his doctor. This was the last straw and I am demanding that he leaves my house. My brother in laws are great for lip service but nothing else at this stage. I am now at the end of my rope and I am at a point to demand to my wife that either he goes or I go. Give me your thoughts I am at the end of my rope with this luatic. Note: this is a summation vgersion of what goes on there is more that meets the eye or read in between the lines. Thank you