Family only cares when they want to.
My husband and I have been married almost 19 years. His daughter moved in with us about 4 years ago. Don't want to go there on how it happened. My discussion is this: I guess Family Members only care about their family when THEY want to. One day, she's real enthusiastic with her Dad about football and/or Wheel of Fortune in tv. Man, she's really into it! Next day, nada, nothing. No wanting or showing any desire to enter into these two things. I'd thought living under the same roof, this would not happen. I do know that if the family doesn't live in the same house, that family seems to ignore situations and things. But living under the same roof??????? Thank you for "listening".