Family doesn't want assisted living.
I had to place my mom in assisted living for dementia and alzhiemer's. It's a very nice place, but she hates it because my brother tells her she doesn't have to be there. I noticed things weren't right over a year ago, no one would listen except the doctor, and finally when she got hurt and found proof of her not taking medicine, you know the rest. Mom hates me I'm stealing her money, I'm sticking my nose in her business. Telling her what to do? Says I thinks she just a stupid old woman. My brother doesn't do anything to care for her, at first she stayed at there house 5 1/2 days, then my uncles for 7 weeks, called him a son of a bitch and accused him of keeping her in a cage. During the time at my uncles we found out my sister in law had decided moms medicines weren't right and changed doses, Well my uncle was the first Trustee of my mom's trust and I'm the second. He finally had enough it was making him so sick his doctor said get out now, or you will die before her. So now I'm in charge and mom's still hating me, I told my brother if he thought I put her in a bad place, if he believed I was abusing her, stealing her money, call the cops, they can contact the doctors and social workers, bring it on, and oh yeah he owes her money, even declared bankruptcy on the debt he owed her