My grandmother needs better care. HELP!
Grandma in a home but not being cared for well enough. they care more about making things easy on themselves that making things easier for grandma - prying her legs open while she is screaming, washing her privates and then her body with one wash cloth, complaining about her being difficult - she has dementia and is bi polar - they are not equipped to care for her in a loving way, they do not make us feel comfortable visiting. i dont think they even take her outside. They have no patience and the people taking care of her have no real nursing experience. i have babies and am very limited on time to spend looking for other options. My other family members are oddly resolved to leave her there. HELP