I don't like her and I want my life back.
Hi all I guess I will just jump in here. To give you a brief history when I was ten my mother's parents moved into our home. My mother did a great job for a while being a full-time caregiver however as caregiving goes r1's pristinely clean home rapidly became very cluttered and dirty my father was not very much help to her and my brother was fifteen at the time and met the woman he would marry so he was little to no help as well. Then as time went on my poor mother was saddled with my father's parents as well. So Bing what it what was my mother relies more and more on me to help her by the time I was 14 I was changing adult diapers helping her get my grandparents dressed and giving insulin shots my mother finally put my grandmother in a nursing home when I was 18 as she was the only grandparent left and my mother's health was failing fast forward to today. I Have Become a caregiver for my mother-in-law we have never had a good relationship I have always found her to be selfish stingy and her favoritism between the children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren makes me crazy. So for the last year I have stayed home to clean her house do her grocery shopping and cart her back and forth too numerous doctors appointments about a month-and-a-half ago she was admitted to the hospital and when she came home she no longer could do anything for herself and so I am a 24/7 caregiver to a woman I really don't like I wish I could say it was different but it's not. I really wish she had chosen to go to a rehab center 2 recuperate. I am just tired of not having my freedom more than anything I don't mind the tasks I just hate not having any freedom. Thank you all for listening