Hi all my name is Purplerain here on this site. This is what I am asking : My friend says that I do not value myself.
You see that I am my moms caregiver wear all the hats and I think that I handle it ok ( some good days and bad ones) I do not like when she will say that to me because she does not take care of her parents ( at least not yet) so how can she tell me that. I was trying to get some respite a couple of weeks ago to go out of town but the timing was all wrong ( she needs a physical before you go to short term stay) and I really wanted the respite! I try to stay positive and take care of me. I am asking you all what do you think of that statement? I understand that she is wanting me to get some respite but I have a problem with the statement "You do not value yourself". Because I do value my self. I do not like it when you point your finger at me and your door steps are dirty. I think that she is a good friend ( and I do not have many) pleas give your thoughts on this for me. thanks much