Division on tangible family heirlooms if you will.
IF YOU HAVE EXCESS OF THINGS, DON'T WAIT FOR THE INEVITABLE TO HAPPEN. START GIVING YOUR "PRIZES" OUT AS GIFTS FOR THE HOLIDAYS.....My friend's dad had things he wanted certain people to have. He died of cancer a couple years ago. I was a recipient of one of his prized possessions. He loved seeing people receive his gifts. Then we put my name on it. My friend gave it to me when he died. He started giving things away that took up shelf space, and wall space. We found out that his house looked more and more empty. So, we moved things around to fill in the gaps..Trust me, we humans have a tendency to gather stuff without even realizing it. The house looked nice, and there was less things for us to "donate". Another friend loves to collect jewelry- good stuff, not costume. I told her to start giving the things she doesn't wear to her family. Who can wear that much stuff? I used to give one of my best friends pretty glass paper weights for xmas etc. She finally said STOP. How many of these things does one need? We both laughed. Next one I gave her, she would hit me with it. We do lunch and walks together instead. Much better....You can't take it with you, have fun watching your loved ones open a present, while you can enjoy seeing their expressions...you don't have to wait for a special moment or holiday. Now is a good time to make someone smile :)