I have horrible depression and anxiety, first over the death of my Dad, and secondly over this sad family matters.
After my fathers accident, resulting in Tramatc Brain injury, my sister, after checking out 2 places, placed him in an assisted living Facility, across from her house. I had been fired from my job, the second day he was on life support, also listed as a NO IN HIS LIVING WILL. Having a brain injury is very different than Alzeimers, the place was under staffed, and my Dad was placed in a room at the very end of a long hall. They told me when they check on the residents they look down the halls, but don't actually walk down there. It got to the point that I was there every day, from before lunch until after dinner, with Dr's and therapists, and would go with him to excersize ect. In the mean time I moved into his house and 45 years of clutter, cleaning it out. My father passed away in Feb. The house sold for cash with in a few days. ( your welcome!). I received an email from one of the siblings, much like a P$L statement, the 1/4 sale of the house to the 4 of us will only be split 3 ways, my self excluded. I was charged for rent, utilities, and the expenses that came out of my Dads account for my CARPAYMENT , cell phone. They agreed that since the care was bad, and the progress with Dad and his house was good, that would be my pay. I received an addional $100.00 for cigarettes, gas back and forth to see him, and groceries and anything my Dads dog needed. The $20,000 , 1/4 of the proceeds of his house, is now $00.000, due to my cleaning skills, and the "rest east" feel for my sister who rarely came....from across the street, and a sibling who lives in ColorDo and one in Texas. They all returned to their jobs, in their states, and I would get my ass chewed if they didn't get an update. So they all kept working, knowing Dad was in good hands and his house was getting ready to sell. They kept their jobs and pay, and bonuses, went on vacations, I stayed by my Dads side, or in his house. They get to split my $20,000 plus theirs, and the regular salary, I got the big $00,000 and nobody's talked to me in 6 months cause I'm pissed off. Wow! Their are still coins, to be divided, and very valuable oil paintings. There has been know work done to make calls to turn these into liquid assets. I said, because I love art, that I could make some calls, because while cleaning and organizing, I found the original paperwork on each, and the gallery where they were purchased. I was told to mind my own business, that won't be happening for quite sometime. See they have money, I'm unemployed, just turned down for Disibility, I have horrible depression and Anxiety , first over the death of my Dad, and secondly over this sad "family" situation. Totally unnessary. They think I need to go into a mental institution, because of my depression. My dad and I were closer than them, because I moved from his house 4 years ago, after living there for 3 years to care for my Mom at their home with Alzeimers. They rarely called or visited, they knew it was handled.