Dealing with step children.
My stepdaughter has become a thorn in my side.she lives 500 miles away yet wants to control everything. My husband is in the last stage of Vascular Dementia, has Congestive Heart Failure and his body is shutting down. The last 2 weeks he has rapidly declined. I contacted his 2 children and his son and his wife after the doctor recommended that he be placed with Hospice and are extremely cooperative and supportive. His daughter, on the other hand, has really been giving me a hard time about sending him to a home and placing him with Hospice. She came to visit him a few weeks ago and spent the whole time with 6 other people she invited to our home. I told her to make that decision but that when she comes she needs to devote time to him only. I ended up putting the phone down and let her scream at me through the phone until she realized I wasn't there anymore. I am so exhausted from being the sole caregiver for the last six years and I don't feel like arguing. Am I being cruel? I believe in my heart that my husband is my first priority. I love my husband so very much and it would kill him to know that she is behaving this way instead of being supportive. I have POA of health and finances and all other stuff is in order. Just really need prayers for peace. I also would welcome any suggestions on how to handle this woman. Thanks