The constant yelling is effecting my health.
I'm the sole caregiver for my 78 yr old mom. Friends & family won't deal with it. My mom→altheimers. Me→her only caregiver. I placed her in a SNF, but brought her home after 8 mo. While there she suffered a broken pelvis. Took over 81/2 wks to heal. A wk. Later, a broken wrist & found a massive bruise covering her entire forehead when I brushed her bangs back. Was never notified about the head injury. The bruising was already green & yellow. she's been home now for 6mo. Insurance doesn't civer respite care. Doesn't qualify for medicaid because she recieves $191.00 too much from ss. She can't afford to pay out of pocket. I can't work, she needs 24hr. Care & supervision. I took home healthcare classes to be certified to take care of her and I do, but don't get paid for it. The only relief I've gotten is two different times I had to go to the hospital for chest pains. Have been unable to follow up because there's no one to watch her. Everyday is an exausting struggle. Everone says i take extrodinary good care if her, but tell me I've aged ten yrs. The constant screaming & yelling has taken it's toll. This situation is destroying my marriage not to mention it's probly killing me literally. I absolutely feel like I have nowhere ir no one to turn to. I pray a lot