A What Point IS ENOUGH? My Father In-law is driving us crazy.
My Father In-law is driving us crazy. Mom had to be admitted into a Nursing Home due to Alzheimers aprox. 1 year ago.
Dad was depressed and ended up staying in the same Nursing home for some rehab. He was released in early December. Since this time he feels we are his personal servants. He refuses to do anything for himself and it's getting old. We have no life. He is capable yet refuses to heat up his own meals. We recently discovered he's dumping his liquids that contain thick-it and making his own drinks without it.
For some reason he feels we should wait on him hand and foot cooking every meal and serving him. What can we do? We know he's capable, yet refuses to do anything for himself. My husband is an only child and it's driving us nuts.