My brother's a jerk. He's been causing problems for me recently. I feel so angry with him & guilty about mom.
My brother (who I have never gotten along with), has been making a lot of trouble for me. In April, he assaulted me, (after discovering I looked at his personal email because I suspected he was skimming money from things he was selling for her (and stealing other things) because he always had money, but never had a real job. I received a concussion and other injuries, so I filed a Temporary Restraining Order to get him out of the house & away from me.
After that, he called Adult Protective Services TWICE and falsely accused me of emotional and financial Elder Abuse. He NEVER does anything to help Mom or me. The only person he cares about is himself. My attorney is helping me get through the TRO situation. After that is settled, he wants me to look into placing Mom in a memory care facility, because I have health issues and because he thinks I'm overwhelmed by everything (which I am), AND I won't have to deal with HER SON anymore. I'm angry with him because I know he won't stop trying to retaliate against me, which is forcing me to place Mom in a memory care facility before I and/or she is ready.
I am SO angry & feel like I'm letting my Mom down. Does anyone have any words of wisdom for me?