solutions from caring persons-go visit-invite them to visit new realtions with others who are like family while- being told "youre not going to be apart of this family" the feelings are overwhelming and i find myself frozen
zoomdots, were you wanting to join family celebrations of the person you care for? Could you explain the situation a little more? Are you a live-in caregiver?
That is horrible, and abusive, in my opinion, for someone, no matter who, to tell you on a major U.S. holiday, were persons are supposed to be celebrating peace, abundance, togetherness, health, and welfare, is outrageous. I would not take it personally, and I would go have dinner at a local church, which is offering Thanksgiving dinner and celebration. You will be welcomed with open arms there.