My girlfriend has burned out helping me with my mom.
After a year, she says it's either my mom or her. I can't abandon my mom, and my other half is a good person, but she has burned out, even before I have. This really stinks. I am not going to put my mom into a home until it reaches a point where I can't handle it anymore, but it means giving up my own life. And she has given me a choice. My mom or her.