I have two brothers. One helps cook meals for Mom some and the other takes no responsibility for helping to look after her. This brother is disabled but is able to drive so I feel like sometimes he could help drive her to beauty shop appts, doctor appts and such. When I mentioned that to him he said "That is what medical transprorts are for." I have talked to him several times about it and he is just not going to do it. I work a full time job and I am with Mom all day Saturday taking her to beauth shop, cleaning her house, getting meds together and buying groceries. and on Sundays I have been taking her to church. I have little time for the man in my life.. Mom has always said she wants everything divided between the three of us and there is a will that states that. All bank accounts have pay on death to the three of us. However, I feel like all this time I looked after her should be worth something. After all , he is doing what he wants to 24/7 but all my off time is taken up looking after Mom. I am thankful Mom is still here but I never have any time for anything else. At this point, When something happens to Mom can I tell him that this is what I charged for the medical transport I provided for years, Cleaning her house and looking after her. It does not seem fair that Mom expects him to get a fair share when he has done nothing to help with her care.