My brother lives with my elderly mother, but wouldn't take of her. So I moved in to help her with day to day living.
My brother is my mom's baby and he moved in with my mother because he was in a major financial situation and would have been homeless otherwise. My mother had just lost her husband. She and my dad had been together since my mom was 14 and my dad was 16, so 55+ years. Mom would have been alone for the first time in her life. As my mom aged and has more health issues she needed help. So I quit my job and moved to her city and into her home to help her with day to day living. My struggle is that my mom adores my brother and sees him doing no wrong and defends him with everything. My brother has hurt me to the core and my mother defends him to the end. I just need to make some peace with this to continue caring for my mom.
Thanks in advance for any advise.