One day I shall just say f*** this
Was late getting to shovel my car out after an arugement with my mother about while my daughters 18 and 20 couldn't do it. One has CP and serious balance issues, plus a leg that has been put back together by surgery twice. The other has arthritis and when it flairs, it is very important that she does not put strain on her joints. When I finally get out there, she puts a rain coat over her bathrobe and comes out to "help."