My mother-in-law is trying to convince her husband to change his personal directive to allow her to let him die.
He has moderate Alzheimers and is not fully capable of making that decision. He has suffered 3 attacks that required CPR to revive him. The main reason he would agree is financial and my husband has assured him we will be sure all his finances are taken care of. That made him agree to "staying alive" but his wife continues to play the needy wife, subtly convincing him she would be better off if she "let him go" next time. I am so upset and am not sure the best course to take here.