I have noticed so many people here (myself included!) that have caregiver burnout and don't want to put our loved ones in a NH...
So, even though SOME of us (myself included) are burned out/frustrated/unhappy/overwhelmed with stress and anxiety due to caregiving, many of us still INSIST despite all of our misery and frustration that we are NOT SENDING OUR LOVED ONE TO A NH. NOT HAPPENING. NO WAY.
So here's the question: Are we really doing the right thing? Is the right thing to suffer so our loved ones don't go to a nursing home?
I am grappling with this dilemma myself and just wanted to see what other's insight on this was!!