I feel bad for my 88 year-old mother because my 60 year-old brother has treats my mom unfairly.
My 60 year old brother has POA. He has been living with my mother almost his whole life. He only moved out for 4 years because I found him a place That was very reasonable. Then he moved back in with my mother. She didn't want him to, as she was starting to enjoy being alone. But she couldn't say no. My sister and I moved out of the house at the age of 20. Got married and raised familys. My brother has a short temper, and is very hard to live with. When my mother got into her late 70s, she used to call up my sister and I and cry how mean My brother could. He would yell at her, slam doors "breaking them" and things like these. My mother is very protective of us three kids. Loves us all the same and we love her. My dad died when we were teenagers. My sister and I took my brother aside and Told him enough is enough. He should be a man and get out on his own. But my mother would say, appartments are so exspensive these days for a single person. So she would protect him.