I desperately need to locate a geriatric doctor for my mom who is in a nursing home suffering from severe dementia

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She recently had a seizure and I believe that the meds are more harmful than the seizure! Help!!


What is her diagnosis? Doesn't the facility have a Geriatric Specialist on call? Are you her POA? If so, you can request a reevaluation of her medications.
Tell the DON that you want a consult - the Medical Director should be able to help if he/she is onsite.
I requested a reevaluation of her meds when it became clear that she is sleeping most of the day. She is on OXCARBAZEPINE and since starting the med, she can't walk unassisted, she can't stand up unassisted, she used very little language. She seems to be dementing before my eyes. The Medical Director of the nursing home is her doctor. We moved here in late August. She walked into the nursing home unassisted, she was feeding herself etc. I don't think the seizures would have this impact!!!! She has only had one. I think we need a second opinion.
I believe you can request one; and if no results from that, call your State Ombudsman. They investigate nursing home claims, etc. What is your mom's diagnosis?
She had a seizure in late Oct. and was in the hospital for five days. She has been diagnosed with Alzheimers/Dementia. I am her POA. I have been told that she represents a "fall" risk and needs the anticonvulsant med. My concern is the impact of the Med. After her hospital stay, she had forgotten how to walk. She seems to be getting weaker and weaker day by day. Should I get a second opinion from a Geriatric specialist? Quality of life is an issue.
My dad had a UTI and was hospitalized for five days. He couldn't walk, talk or feed himself at that time. A neurologist saw him and took him off Risperdol, which stiffened his gait. We thought he was going to die, but recovered, slightly. It was a long process. He did suffer some seizures after that, which is sometimes part of the process. He recovered, but has some good, and some bad days. Sometimes he sleeps more than others. With Advanced Stage Alzheimer's Disease, he is declining in his abilities, and will not be getting better. Don't know what type of medication your mom is on, but have every right to ask for a second opinion and/or reevaluation, and for their prognosis. Is she wheel-chair bound?
She walks with assistance but, we are more and more dependent on the chair. Because she is sitting more, and sleeping in the chair, she is becoming stooped. She is on OXCARBAZEPIN. The side effects include stiffening, lack of coordination, loss of speech etc. She has all of these. I know that her abilities will decline, my concern is that it seems to be happening overnight. I'm not so sure it's the process or the meds. I don't want us to treat the seizure and take away the little independence she enjoyed. She especially enjoyed interacting with the great grandchildren - and they enjoyed her.
Sounds like my dad's symptoms, and his is definitely the disease process. Sad, and seems to be going quickly. I just looked at pictures of him two years ago, still driving. Amazing. He can hardly walk, and can't understand a thing he's saying. I hate Alzheimer's. Sorry you have to go through it, too. We grieve as they lose ground.
Is your Dad wheel chair bound? What effect did the seizures have on him? Is your Dad in a nursing home?
He was basically bedridden at the time the seizures occured. That was about a year ago, and I don't know of any since. He has generally declined though, in all aspects. He's still ambulatory, but much slower, and often walks holding the hands of others. He is very repetitive, closing doors, folding things, etc. He stops and reads the names on each door. He can't speak to be understood anymore. A few months ago he could. Dad is starting to have trouble getting up out of chairs, as well. Not looking forward to more decline...

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