Frazzled

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need help. Have sent over $100,000 to my parents over past 13 years; they say they are broke, I'm broke; I still owe money and can pay; mother lays guilt trip on me that I don't do enough; can't get what it is that I paid for; still pay for our cell phones, etc... she is 78, dad is 80; she had knee replacement surgery, gall bladder surgery and other surgery this past year; I'd paid for our vacations, their trips, everything and it is just not enough... am frazzled. Where do I go to get help for them financially? So that I can pay but it doesn't break me in 1/2 again?

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