I am so frustrated right now. About a month ago we bought the house next door so my mother in law with early alzheimers could live there and feel independent yet we could still take care of her. We are there several times a day and she comes here. My brother in law who lives across the country just called and said his mother was complaining she is lonely and doesn't see us for days on end! We cook dinner every night and either take it to her house and eat with her or she comes to ours. Our front door is literally steps away. I know it is not her fault and is part of the disease but how to get distant family members to understand is so frustrating! We are disrupting our whole lives to make things work for her and still end up the bad guy! So frustrated!
My mother-in-law is complaining to my brother-in-law that she doesn't see myself and my