Boundaries With ouy Aging Parents: When to Say Yes and When to Say No To Take Control of Your Life.
On page 129 of the book, Boundaries: When to Say Yes and When to Say No To Take Control of Your Life, Drs. Cloud and Townsend discuss the difficulty some of us have with elderly parents who may not be really in need, but are irresponsible, demanding or acting like martyrs. or when they are in need lack the clear boundaries of what one can or cannot give. Poor boundaries can ruin marriages and hurt children.