911 and not expected to survive.

Didgens, I'm so sorry to hear this is happening to your dad. Please know you're in our thoughts. Hang in there and come back to talk, vent, cry or scream if you need to. We'll listen.

Didgens, I am so sorry. It's all in god's hands now. I hope you can spend time with him as he is crossing over. I am sorry that you have lost so much. It is hard to understand how life can go at times. Please let us know what is happening. ((((Hugs))))

So sorry to hear your news.
(((Hugs))). Hang in there....

Awwwwww, so, so very sorry about this.

thank you Barb,,, that's what we are hoping for. we do have a nursing home on deck that does hospice should they force us out like they did my mom, but if his kidneys have shut down then I'd be surprised if he makes it through the weekend.

Didgens;

I'm so sorry that you are going through this.....again.

Is there a possibility of hospice or palliative care in the hospital?

Again, I'm so sorry about this; be gentle with yourself and come here to let it all out!

thank you all so much. The hospital isn't talking about forcing us out like they did with my mom. and it being a 3 day weekend I don't think much of anything is going to happen other than comfort measures. Hess clearly shutting down, no appetite. I don't believe he will last the week. Im doing ?? so so considering this is my 3rd major loss in a year and a half. Well if you count my beautiful fur baby doggie then 4th. My doggie, then my mom,, then my husband,, now my dad,,, I hate to say this but I know the routine,, I get it,, there isn't any surprise or glomming onto false hope here. My father had a beautiful almost 90 years,, it was just a matter of time after he lost my mom, the love of his life,, before surrendering and joining her I think. so the tears will flow for the loss of my beautiful papa,, but there'll be a smile tucked in there knowing the two of them are together.

Thinking of you didgens, so sorry, hugs, Bella

((((((hugs)))) so sorry about your dad and that the nurses didn't listen to you. I hope you can get some help for him now.

I can only imagine how frightening this must be for you. I hope you have friends or family to be with you. Please provide an update, when you can.

Just saw your last note -- can they get your dad on hospice? (We chose a local non-profit hospice rather than the one that was affiliated with the hospital, and found them to be a lot of help.) Do you have family nearby who can help you and your dad?

Oh no, Didgens, I'm sorry! Yesterday you wrote that he was dehydrated -- do you think what happened is related to that? Hopefully they will get things readjusted and stabilize him. I hope you are ok.

hes in the hospital right now,, I had to call 911 yesterday for him. Just got word his kidneys are shutting down, so its just a matter of time I think.

I'm sorry to hear that your dad is so ill. Is he on Hospice? Is he in your home or a LTC facility?