This is so true. You can't wish it away. I moved in with my mother to keep her safe. The one good thing was she suffered from OCD. She got her daily exercise by going around the house. Checking the stove, doors, sinks etc. Also, she was never left alone. I got to the point after a few Cellulitis of the abdomen and foot. I would set the table with a cup and saucer in the upper corner of her plate in the morning. I observed to many mornings with a mug on the edge of the table. I knew it was going to fall right onto her lap. Also, I had to take the handle of the shut on/off valve in the bathtub off to keep her safe. I had to anticipate the things she would do. To keep her safe.

Very well said! :)