To each of you who have commented on this post and to all who have read it and understood how it feels to part of this army, I thank you for reading my blog posts and for all you do for your loved ones.

I identify with this article as I am my chronically ill, disabled, elderly mother's caregiver. I have been for the past 18 years and most days I still don't know how I get through the days. Is there a stage beyond burnt out? It is such a rollercoaster with my own siblings getting angry and put off when I say that I need a break. They really believe that I was born to just care for our mother.

Some days I literally deny myself to think about how unfair it is or I will certainly break. My prayers are with all of the caregivers like myself who are never given the respect, support and appreciation that we so very much need and deserve.

After caring for my mother for the past few years my 12 yo DD told me that she will be putting me in a nursing home but will come visit every 2 weeks. It made me laugh and I told her that I'll remember all the things that annoy me now about my mom and try not to do it to her. Yes, our immediate family does recognize the sacrifices that we're making but so many others don't really understand. I come here almost every day for the extra support that keeps me going. Thanks to everyone on this site that truly understands.

After caring for my elderly mom and knowing no one can really know my hugely challenging journey, I keep wondering how WE will impact those around us as WE age and what can we do about it... now and until then?