my mothere in-law is 84. i am her daughter in-law and power of attorney as well. it started in march 09. she was bleeding. i had her admitted to the hospital to find out what was wrong. her catherder had filled two bags of blood. she was given a blood transfusion. the test kept going until two weeks ago and we found out she has cancer in her bladder. in march i told the dr. there was something else wrong with her when he insisted it was her cumadin. i recommended another doctor and this dr. found the cancer. it is a hi grade cancer. there are so many things i am asking myself on what is the right thing to do. chemo?radiation? or let her live with a quality of life. i am by her side everyday i get off work to show my support and love for my mother -in-law.