pamela6148

Pam,

You've been more than gracious today for a few times I've felt a slight degree of invalidation from some that I don't think really fully grasps what you are going through. Just MHO. :)

You did well to salvage Saturday and I hope you make a lot of money. Then Sat night go somewhere and 'swing from the chandelers" in being nice to yourself for all the progress you have made.

Thank you for the suggestion. It's so simple, yet it just may work.
I'll try it.

Pam,

You are doing just fine. Given the control F.O.G. dynamics of herworshipfullness the queen, you have every right to be angry as ___. So don't let anyone invalidate how you truely feel.

Thanks for the compliment and keep moving ahead. D___ those torpedoes, and get their FOGY voices out of your head. You go girl!!!!

Okay here - just in a bit of a funk what with cold dreary days - so ready for spring, warm temps, and sunshine... but this has forced me to stay home and get some paperwork done - including my dad's stuff so that's a good thing!

Along with the insight about the wool being pulled over your eyes, I think the other one is the issue of choice in giving them the power to control us. Keep on fighting and pushing. You are getting there.

I went and read your post. I'm looking forward to reading your new insight!

Pam,

Great one liner to confused "Girlfriend lose this Zero and find yourself a Hero!"

Thank you I am doing ok today is warm and sunny out it is such a relief to have good weather again I spend some time cleaning up the yard we have had a real severe winter here this year and am finally able to get back to our senior center for activities-you take care my friend.

You are so right she wanted the POA now let her honor her oblgations she does not deserve you and what kind of example is she showing her kids she will be the elderly Mom some day and her kids she how she acts and they will remember that for sure.

Oh my-Mom's driving...now that would be interesting. I'm the driver and Mom doesn't want to go out much. Is actually good on her own.
Hope that wasn't intrusive, I was just interested 'cause of your Catalina comment. Been there many times and can see Catalina on a clear day.