My mother has been in an assited living costing $ 4500. per month for the last three months and I am about to pass out from exhaustion trying to help her and angry at my brother and his wife because they just don't care. I think we are paying way too much for the level of care that she is getting. What kind of facility is good for a woman in her late 80's who is not ill but has high blood pressure, is mobile with a walker and needs some attention or companionship. I am drained.