What can I do if we have elderly parents who are being taken advantage of by one son?

There are several problems involved in your question. When that occurs the only way to proceed is to prioritize. Which is number one, number two, etc. If number one is the elderly parents then you might consider a Conservatorship (some states) or a Guardianship (other states.Your first step is to go toL egal AidRight now I am having to stop because the system is not allowing me to proof read. Bye.e

Planeman

In Ohio the have "Elder Abuse" program...that's includes, verbal, mental, physical and financial abuse...check your local programs and they will come out and access the problem...sometimes a third party can make elders understand better than family.

Long story short.....my Father passed away 4 years ago,,my younger brother lived with them his whole life,,,even committed bankruptcy while living in their home and not working... During the course of closing up my Dads burial,,,Mom was asked to sign many documents. It was later discovered by me,,,that she no longer owned her home,,,she signed it over to her son,,,along with Dad's Hummer ,,insurance annuity's and even made himself Trading Agent on her investment accounts. He changed beneficiary's putting himself 100% ... I was very close with my Mom for my entire life and know by her own admission she didn't give him everything ,,,nor did she know he got her house somehow... She also was on alot of medication which she is no longer on at that time,,,it was told to me and in medical reports her son was trying to have her deemed incompetent on a regular basis... It got so bad during this time because I suspected he was intimidating her with violence,,,the police where called to her house on 3 occasions for "Screaming " coming from the house where the 2 of them lived. finally my brother did everything to keep me out,,,even pulling a stunt of threatening me through her ,,,that I couldn't take her to her doctor appointments or he would hurt me ,,,,so my Mom started to call me stating "You better not come to take me today to Doctor so and so because it's not safe... bottom line things got so bad Mom had to come live with me but while she was at my house he ended up selling her house without ever telling us...All her belongings where gone,,,he even gave her burial plot away to his older brother who is trying to use it as Extortion of $200,000. or she doesn't get buried with my Dad... Finally Mom filed a police complaint,,,,my brother was arrested on 7 felony counts ... Problem is he had political strings being pulled and I kinda knew it from the beginning as the DA was not acting right at all... Even the Detective on the case admitted they where playing politics and wanted her to come in and take a statement to throw out all the charges a year after his arrest to close the matter up... We finally thought we were going to have our day in court,,,, well Mom never even got to go before the judge because this DA who was suppose to be for her ,,,took her in a room prior to this hearing ALONE and told me and a friend that came along to push Mom in her chair since I am disabled myself also ...and when he tried to take her in for questioning prior to the hearing I asked to be with her ,,,,because I was afraid of what might be said without a witness and second her health and someone to monitor that while they put her through this drill ,,,,my friend that was pushing her in her chair asked to go in since they denied me because I could potentially be a witness later down the road,,,,and they denied my friend too,, so they took my Mom alone with me and my friends outside the witness room,,,as we listened ,,,she clearly told the DA 3 times "I did NOT GIVE my son the house "" nor did I give him all these other things he is claiming I did.... I thought it was going well and then he got up and went across the hallway into the courtroom ,,,called the head DA in and she asked my Mother something ,,,only this time we couldn't hear any words being said,,,,she comes out of the room and I already saw my brother the creep leaving the courthouse. this woman said to me it's over your Mother said she could have given the house to him,,,,???? She said initially before all this went down she could have left him the house ,,,,but not until after her death because he lived there and was such a looser both my parents were worried he wouldn't have a roof over his head.... So some $315,000. later he took ,,,,they dismissed him. ???? I am outraged and so is everyone that was there that day.... besides the fact no one was allowed in that room with her and she could have suffered a heart attack or stroke since she was so nervous and stressed....she has hypertension ,,,Parkinson's and a resected bowel from cancer...and recently developed ... They had her sworn complaint to the detective a year prior and an audio tape taken the same day. On that tape all she could say is how afraid she was of her son... Understand I was POA when my Dad was alive and he actually wrote his and her wills ,,,but at some point my brother got her signature making him POA , but at the time he sold her home or hummer he had been revoked as POA . The Detective felt it was a rock solid case ,,,,until she called me and told me they where playing politics and she didn't like it,,,,there were 4 different Judges with every 2 months they asked for a continuance,,, We believe they were hoping my Mother's memory would decline along with her health since she has a slow growing thyroid cancer..... I feel along with many others my Mother was victimized all over again at the hand of an evil DA. I might add on one of those calls to the Police my Mother's neighbors made for screaming coming from her house ,,,it was found my brother punched my Mother's headboard missing her by an inch in trying to intimidate her into signing some papers first thing in the morning when he woke her up... He broke his right hand and went into work that day second shift and pulled insurance fraud saying he fell out of the truck on the job,,,,
This is an outrage !!!! My poor Mother lost everything ,,,all her belongings,,,,stuff from her 50th wedding anniversary ... Never to see her things again,,,,and they found most of the stuff in his new house he brought with her money . He got what he planed to get and hasn't seen my Mom in over 3 years....nice son. I believe my Mother's Civil Rights weren't even protected,,, no one will even return calls,,,,even now the Detective came on board to their politics she said she didn't play..... It's a disgrace ......Any advice ??? I have been trying to care for my Mother for 3 years and I have lupus so it's been a real struggle,,,, but we have no one else . I really didn't think they could throw 7 felony's out and send her on her Merry way to tell her and you go home with your daughter and have a joyous Christmas,,,,, What a disgrace..... Is there no justice ???