Hello. I am in my mid-50's. I have a friend (of 32 years) who is in her 80s. Web both live in New Jersey. SHE HAS NO CHILDREN and her only other family is one or two elderly people who live in North Carolna. She is currently in an independent living facility in Gibbstown, NJ. She basically looks at me as her daughter. She has made arrangements and paid for her funeral and plot (next to her husband). She has placed my name as the person to help out with her end of life arrangements. The problem is, I have no idea how any of this works and would like to get info BEFORE I actually need it. Who should I reach out to for information/help? Any direction you can provide would be immensely appreciated.