My 87-year-old mother will be moving in with me and my husband. How will she pay for her food and other expenses?

Asked by jrasmussen  |  Feb 26, 2010

She is very frail and has congestive heart disease.

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Carol Bradley Bursack, Feb 27, 2010

Over the span of two decades author, columnist and speaker Carol Bradley Bursack cared for a neighbor and six elderly family members. Because of this experience, Bradley Bursack created a portable support group, the book "Minding Our Elders: Caregivers Share Their Personal Stories."

 

You are wise to ask early. She can pay you but you need to keep good records. To be totally safe legally, I'd have an attorney draw up a contract. Then, if she goes on Medicaid, you will have the right records at your fingertips.

Carol

 
 

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Feb 27, 2010

Ahh I don't mean to be snide, but how much can an 87 year old eat?. My mom gives me money every week to buy her groceries but I find that she is eating less and less and less now while approaching 86.

 
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