Answered a question 10/28/2008 at 9:52 am
I think the caregiver does greive in a different way, it is more silent, the memories flow like a calm river, knowing the caregiver gave so much of themselves to be there, we saw the pain we shedded t
...Read MoreI think the caregiver does greive in a different way, it is more silent, the memories flow like a calm river, knowing the caregiver gave so much of themselves to be there, we saw the pain we shedded the tears, we felt abandoned by others who could have helped out, it is such a mixed bag of emotions and exhaustion. I really think the caregivers greiving process is more focused on the what do we do next, it almost feels like being fired from a job, our life becomes our own again, and we seek refuge within ourselves. It does divide many families, for that is what is happening to me now, almost as if they are jealous of me. I do feel lost at this time in my life, but I know one day, I will be ok. I see a hawk or two in the sky and imagine it is either Mom or Dad flying above and watching over me, it gives a sense of peace. Now I have memories to share with my children and my grandchildren, and that is such a special gift. Tracy hang in there, the road is difficult and may not be easy, but knowing you did what you could do without help from others, can be rewarding, for you will be filled with memories. Kim