Commented on a discussion 12/30/2009 at 9:27 pm
Hi, This is Jeff again,
I am a caregiver to my wife. I love her very much and have always been gentle with her. She does respond much more peaceful with love, patience and gentleness.
...Read MoreHi, This is Jeff again,
I am a caregiver to my wife. I love her very much and have always been gentle with her. She does respond much more peaceful with love, patience and gentleness.
I have been playing the game so to speak, when she forgets who I am and wnats to know where her husband is, I have found that no matter how much you try to convince her that you are her husband, she will not believe it. So I tell her that I am a very good friend of her husband and that when he leaves he has me come over to take care of her. She has been accepting that and keeps telling me she is so thankful that I am there. Than just as suddenly as she forgets who I am, she will remember that I am her husband.
The question I have is, is it ok to play the friend of her husband or will this do more harm down the road?
Thanks,
Jeff