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Helping Your Elderly Parent Move Out of Their Home

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When an elderly parent moves out of their home, into an assisted living facility, nursing home or the home of relative, it is an emotional and stressful time. Senior move manager Mary Jo Zeller, who works for Gero Solutions (link to Gero Solutions website), a senior move management company in the Chicago area, says a senior move is a major life event. “It’s in the same category as getting married, or having a baby. It’s another transition, a loss, a grieving process.”

Once the decision has been made that the elderly person will move out of their home, a host of challenges arises that the caregiver has to deal with. What do they bring to the new home? What do they leave behind? What happens to items that are left behind? How do they prepare for the move? And the list goes on.

To help the family through this difficult time, Senior Move Managers handle the details of planning and implementing the move, including:

  • Space planning, furniture measurement and floor plan design
  • Interviewing, scheduling and overseeing movers
  • Unpacking and setting up the new home
  • Cleaning of vacated property
  • Moving day management
  • Arrangement of garage/estate sales
  • Resource bank of realtors, movers, handymen, etc.

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Sean said
Oct 17, 2007

It's great to hear about such organizations. They are NEEDED! When the time came for my parents to move to a facility, they dug their heels in and refused. Opinions of outsiders eventually helped convince them that it was the right thing to do. Somehow the power of being a blood relative works to your disadvantage in this situation!

mkbuysse said
Jul 25, 2008

For a complete listing of senior move managers throughout the US and Canada, please go to the National Association of Senior Move Managers (NASMM) website at www.nasmm.org.

Anne said
May 1, 2009

I have exciting news to share that I could not have imagined even a short while ago: my Mom is following her husband to live in my city. They've been married 52 years (this June). He left a year ago June for placement in a Nursing Facility, then was moved in November 200 miles away from her to another one (more specialized) to live by me (their daughter, The Feisty Firstborn - lol). Mom's health has been declining, and she's been living alone for the past 11 months, with frequent 400 mile round trip visits by me, whenever needed. But this has not been ideal. Her house is huge, and she's told me and my sister (who lives even further) that's it's "too much for her to keep up," etc. So, she's agreed to move. That will be next week. Can hardly believe it myself...

I'm excited because there's a world of possibilities involved. She'll be living within walking distance of me, the floral shop and ice cream store. And she'll be 3 miles distance from her husband. No more will I have to worry about her living alone, because she's in a senior facility, surrounded by a close Christian community of people in similar situations. I'm amazed what prayer can do, and being feisty helps! My husband and I will be moving her and her things next week. I wish I could print the moving checklist above, but it didn't work. Any suggestions?

NAUSEATED said
May 1, 2009

Anne, that is so wonderful to hear! You won't have the stress of the constant worrying.
Can you copy and paste? I'm not very computer savy, so don't know.

Anne said
May 1, 2009

I can copy and paste, but I use a glue stick and my HP printer. LOL Actually, yeah, but can't figure this one out.

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