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Questions and Answers about Assisted Living for Elderly Parents

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Here are the most common questions that caregivers have about finding assisted living.

What exactly is an assisted living community?
An assisted living facility is a community for seniors who cannot live independently. They provide mobility assistance and daily living care for bathing, dressing, toileting, grooming, and eating.

What’s the difference between assisted living and a nursing home?
Assisted living does not provide medical care, such as treatment for specific conditions or diseases like Parkinson’s disease or hospice care. The assisted living facility will assess the elder to decide what kind of care his or her needs require. Nursing homes, on the other hand, are designed to house and assist individuals who have health conditions that require constant monitoring and the availability of medical personnel.

When is it time to consider assisted living for your parents?
An elder should make the move to assisted living if hiring in-home care is not an option. If your parent cannot perform daily living tasks like bathing and dressing, cooking and eating, then their safety is in danger. If your parent has severe mobility issues and cannot get around the house safely and on their own, they need assistance. Lastly, if your parent is constantly confused, forgetful and sometimes wanders, their safety is at risk. If any of these factors apply to your parent, they need the assistance that an assisted living facility provides.

Are pets allowed?
Many allow pets. It is best to check with the facility.

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LynnPO said
Apr 15, 2010

Many assisted living facilities DO take medicaide - you just have to ask. Often they have requirements that the elder share a room.

LynnPO said
Apr 15, 2010

Regarding the difference between assisted living and nursing homes: Some assisted facilities will request that an elder be moved once they require more than one aide at a time. For example: toileting, if it takes more than one aid to help the elder on or off the toilet, then the elder is considered too infirm and must move.

mbargielski said
Apr 21, 2010

My dad's assisted living home takes people that require more than one assist. It depends on the individual needs of the patient. We like it because he can stay there pretty much as long as he needs to.

BGB said
Jun 8, 2010

My Mom is on section 8 grov. housing but now we think she need a assisted living facilities. she has med/medi medical/medcare. if so how do i go about getting her into a facility and how is it paid. California

jjn80 said
Jul 4, 2010

My Mom's assisted living home will also allow her to stay there even though she requires more than one assistant. They said they will keep her unless she requires skilled nursing care (IV, feeding tube, etc.). They are actually much better with her than a rehab facility she was in for a brief time after hospitalization.

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