The role of the family and caregiver in adjusting
What about the elder’s family? The caregiver needs to adjust to this change, too. It is important to keep these things in mind:
- Don’t feel guilty
Very often, family members can feel guilt about placing loved ones into assisted living. Guilt will do no good because the move was ultimately for the best. If a family member feels guilt, they should remember that the move to assisted living will benefit their elderly parent’s health and well-being. - Keep in touch
The caregiver also plays a vital role in their aging parent’s successful transition to assisted living. When visiting is not possible, family members can keep in contact with both their parent and the assisted living staff. They should make sure that their parents are socializing and getting involved in the community. When visits are possible, caregivers can even attend activities with their parents to ensure that they are meeting new people. - Don’t hold their hand
Although it is important to visit and/or call to monitor the status of the transition, family members that visit too often can inhibit some of the senior’s independence. Spending time with family is important, but if all of the senior’s time during the transition period is spent with family, they will not be making new friends and getting involved in the community like they should. As a result, don’t hold your parent’s hand too much. Give them space to adjust to their new home on their own. - Bring personal items
In order to make the elder’s new residence feel like a home, bringing personal items is necessary. Bring items that have personal meaning, including pictures, knick-knacks, medals, etc.