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Who Pays for Mom's House after She's Moved to a Nursing Home?

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The home is one of the biggest assets you are allowed to own and still qualify for Medicaid coverage of your nursing home bills. Under recent federal law effective Jan. 1, 2006, the equity in your home will be completely exempt from counting against you for Medicaid eligibility purposes, if your equity does not exceed $500,000. (Under the federal law, each state has the option of adopting a higher exemption, up to $750,000.) In addition, if your spouse continues to live in the house, it will be exempt no matter how much it is worth.

Of course, if your spouse is living in the home, it will be exempt no matter what your "intent" may be.

But what if you're not married, and you're in a nursing home---who pays the real estate taxes, the homeowner's insurance, the heat and other necessary upkeep? The general rule is that you must turn over all of your income to the nursing home, before Medicaid will pay the balance of your nursing home bill. So generally, you cannot use your income to pay for these household expenses.

There is an exception for the first six months you are in the nursing home, if you can be reasonably expected to return home within this period of time. If such is the case, the federal rules permit you to deduct a limited amount each month to pay for certain house-related expenses, including rent or mortgage.

After the first six months, there are several options. First, your family members may have to pay these bills, to protect what they hope and expect will eventually pass to them following your death. Accurate records should be kept documenting who paid what and when, so that should they inherit the house as planned, everyone's share can be adjusted fairly based on what they paid in during your lifetime.

Second, you can rent out the house. This is often a good idea if family members simply do not have the cash to pay the real estate taxes and other monthly upkeep costs out of pocket. A local management company should be used to supervise the rentals and take care of emergencies (calling the plumber on a weekend, etc.). In truth, you should not be overly concerned as to the cost of such a company, since all of the net income from your rent simply goes to the nursing home anyway, saving the Medicaid program money, not your family!

Accordingly, it would be better to charge a little less rent if that ensures a responsible tenant, since your goal is simply to cover the ongoing carrying costs of the house, not make a profit.

Finally, don't forget that there is little point in your family paying for the upkeep of the house if it will have to be sold to repay the state under the Medicaid "estate recovery" program following your death.


K. Gabriel Heiser is an attorney with over 25 years experience in elder law and estate planning. Heiser is the author of "How to Protect Your Family's Assets from Devastating Nursing Home Costs: Medicaid Secrets," an annually updated practical guide for the layperson.Visit his website at http://www.medicaidsecrets.com/

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Cookie123 said
Oct 7, 2009

castoff said
Jul 15, 2010

Thanks for the info. VERY helpful.
Would the fed. rule permit the deduct for an apartment rental for the six months?? Mom sold her house years ago but pays for her apartment now. Would that rule apply?

195Austin said
Jul 15, 2010

I would hire an elder lawyer in your state and charge the fee to her and take his advice which you will need to do anyway because a nursing home will insist that you apply for medicaide but make sure the social worker and the lawyer help you it is very complicated and if her assests are too much she will have to spend her money down for care until she is at the level allowed to get medicaide her assests will probably be too high at first because they count any life insurance and pension she has as an assest -you are allowed to prepay for the funeral expenses with her money but in my state if you are married the debts can not be subtracted from the assests and the well spouses life insurance is considered an assest that is why you need legal advice up front because even though you-the well spouse can keep the home and it is good to have it in trust to an adult child-but there is a look back period of at least 5 years and you have to account for any large amounts of money withdrawn the last 5 years and have to get 3 yrs. of bank statement and anything over 2 thousand

Flipper123 said
Jul 16, 2010

Dad (86yrs) with severe vertigo needs nursing home care now-Still paying mortgage on Mobile home along with all utilities etc. Even if he consented to sell-with the current market it could take a year or longer-No one in family able to afford to continue paying these bills-so will we have to just walk away from it and let the bank have it? His disabled 50 yr old son lives there with him and essentially will become homeless--Can anyone help us. Our State is Massachusetts

castoff said
Jul 16, 2010

As the attorney stated....for six months if it is thought he may return an allotment will be made for the mortgage from his funds. The disabled son should have income from disability ss & be able to pay some of the expense. Check with social services, area agency on aging...etc. you should be able to find help. Google your questions on the web....you will find a plethera of info.

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