Joanne just got the call every child of an elderly parent dreads: Her mother, Katherine, age 80, had fallen, breaking her hip, leg and wrist. Joanne’s family was suddenly in crisis mode. There were many decisions that needed to made – decisions they were unprepared for. Would her mother be able to live independently when she leaves the hospital? Will she need round-the-clock care? What is her recovery time? Does her insurance the physical therapy she’ll need?
Joanne has suddenly been thrust into the caregiver role with a shotgun start. If you are in a similar situation, here are some steps to take that you help you through the process:
STEP ONE:
Establish open communication with the hospital staff
You will no doubt have lots of questions for the doctor and nurses. But some people find it difficult to know what do ask, who to ask and when to ask. Here is some information that will help:
What to do when your parent is suddenly hospitalized
How to talk to your doctor