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10 Secrets That Aging Parents Keep - and What To Do About It

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Your aging parent may be keeping secrets from you. Not necessarily lies, but withholding of information that may be important to their health, safety or general well-being.

Often, as people age, they become embarrassed when they have to ask for help, or require assistance in their care. So they cover up bruises, accidents and money trouble in an attempt to maintain their independence. 

From falls to spending habits and from abuse to car accidents, there are a range of “secrets” that elders tend to keep, according to Marilyn Sharbach Ladew, MSW, a nationally recognized expert in senior caregiving.

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tctwall said
Aug 25, 2009

My question is the following: I transfer money into my mother's checking account each month, ( no check involved, just a com puter $$ transfer)and at least once per month she tells her neighbors I am taking that money OUT of her account, in essence stealing from her. I have ogn eover this again and again, having her do the math to porve there is more money not less money in her account after the transfer. She says she understands, and then calls the neighbor over to complain that I am STEALING from her again. How can I convince her otherwise and why does she distrust me so? No silbings to help me. I am also in the caregiving.I am very generous with my time, affection and money to make her happy.

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