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Is Stress Causing Your Sleep Problems?

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Most Americans do not get enough sleep each night. Medical experts say that you should get between 7 and 8 hours of sleep, but recent statistics revealed that many people are getting less than 5 to 6 hours.

If you are not getting enough sleep, it can have adverse affects on your overall health. For example, it may cause unwanted weight gain, or a constant feeling of sluggishness throughout the day.

People use many excuses for not getting to bed at a decent time. “I have to clean the house, and nighttime is the only time I can get everything done;” or “I love watching late night television.” No matter what excuse you are using, your lack of a good night’s sleep can be a problem.

Some people, however, bring their stress problems into the bedroom, and that can have disastrous results. Not only will stress affect your sex life, it will also affect your ability to get the rest you need. No matter what has caused stress throughout the day, you must learn to “let it go” in order to get a good night’s sleep. Here are some tips to help you chase the stress away, and enjoy a restful night of slumber:

  • Create a sleep ritual – Make a commitment that your bedroom will be a place of “peace and quiet.” Do not use that time and space to discuss finances, problems with the kids, etc. You can read, listen to soft music, or even make love.
  • Reduce the alcohol – The quality of your sleep can be affected by the amount of alcohol you drink before you go to bed. Plus, if you do drink too much, you will probably rehash the events of the day that caused you stress, and you will never get to sleep.
  • Keep a notepad by your nightstand – By keeping a notepad and pen handy, you can jot down your worries, and make a pact to deal with them the next day. You can make a conscious decision to get a good night’s sleep, and not let your worries rob you of that pleasure.
  • Sound proof your bedroom – If you live in a noisy neighborhood and the stress of the outside sounds are causing you sleep problems, invest in some soundproofing. For example, heavy drapes, shutters, carpet, wall hangings, etc., all help absorb excess noise.
  • Be thankful – As you lay your head on the pillow, instead of thinking about all of the problems and stress in your life, try being thankful for everything that you do have. Medical studies have proven that people who are thankful for the blessings in their lives are healthier, happier, and get a good night’s sleep.


Re-Published with permission by MySleepCentral.com

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MamaBoo1 said
Dec 27, 2008

I am taking care of both of my parents. I live behind them and my brother lives 6 miles away but he has a daughter that has Spina Bifita. My sister lives 13 miles away and she is very busy taking care of her grown kids needs and their children. Neither comes over except when we go to church or my brother brings supper maybe once a week to 2 weeks for Mom and Daddy. I am disabled but have not gotten my checks started yet so my sister is paying for my household bills for now. I feel I owe my sister and brother to look after our parents but I feel so isolated and completely alone. My sister lived close by Mom and Daddy a long time ago when Mom was relatively well and she understands how Mom can be. But she really doesn't because she or my brother aren't around Mom or Daddy except usually around 30 min. or so a week and neither hardly ever sits down when they come because they are always ready to go. Daddy has Alzheimer's also but his in in pretty good shape now and he, my sister and I go to church together but she leaves as soon as we get back.
Mom has congestive heart failure and stays confused most of the time and I am the one that takes them both to the dr., the hospital and for tests and I have been told since I am by myself I don't have any responsibilities like my brother and sister do. Can anyone help me to reason any of this out? I can't even take enough time to go to a caregivers support group because my parents have so many appointments and I have to make sure Mom takes her medicine when she is supposed to even though I fill it for each day and break it down to four times a day. Can someone please give me some insight? I don't want to alienate my brother and sister from me because I really do appreciate anything that they do.

mitzipinki said
Jan 9, 2009

Are you looking to find time for you or upset about the payback to your brother and sister for having to take care of them both since you are waiting for your money? Find out the reason for what bothers you. Don't be afraid to be honest with yourself. For me, people get stunned that I'm so honest about my feelings, but if I'm not truthful about the situation I get physically sick from keeping it all inside.

Find out the why's behind your confusion. Come here to the boards, read things from others. Its shocking to see there are many of us out here with the same emotions, anger and issues that can sympathize with us. How soon will it be until you get a paycheck?

TwoHugs said
Jan 10, 2009

Sit down with your siblings get outside affordable help.

sidney said
Jan 10, 2009

Ohh sleep elusive sleep... I levae my bedroom door open so I can hear my mom as she awakens coughing in the night and has recently started talking in her sleep. her TV is left on most of the night and a nite lite bothers me also. Not to mention worrying about bills, what moms going to do monday when i go back to work, how Im suppose to retire.. its just never ending.. Ill bet Ive aged 10 years in the past 5. my happy go lucky attitude is long gone and I feel like the weight of my soul is bearing me into the ground.
Mom is relatively healthy for someone 77. yet she refuses to become involved in any kind of outside activity.

TwoHugs said
Jan 10, 2009

Is there any way you can arrange to have her pick up and let her spend the day in a senior day care setting. While you work and tend to your own personal matters?

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