Reveive your free Custom Care Guide

Let us put together a care guide personalized with the best information on how to care for your elderly loved one.

Stay Informed

Receive weekly AgingCare updates directly to your inbox.

Cost of Caring for Elderly Parents Could Be Next Financial Crisis

Text Size

A survey conducted by AgingCare found that although adult children are often responsible for paying for their elderly parent’s care, the large majority of caregivers are vastly unprepared. The survey found:

  • 63% of caregivers have no plan as to how they will pay for their parent’s care over the next five years. 
  • 62% say the cost of caring for a parent has impacted their ability to plan for their own financial future.

“With an estimated 34 million Americans providing care for older family members, the survey’s results indicate a financial crisis in the making,” says Joe Buckheit, Publisher of AgingCare, a website and online forum for family caregivers.

“Medicare only covers long-term care for a short time, and only under strict rules. Medi-gap insurance helps, but does not cover all costs. The burden of paying for long-term care often rests with the family,” Buckheit says. “The caregivers’ lack of planning is impacting their own financial future.”

Long-term care costs are not the only expenses caregivers bear. “Family members responsible for ailing loved ones provide not only hands-on care but often reach into their own pockets to pay for many daily expenses, including groceries, household goods, drugs, medical co-payments and transportation,” says Buckheit. “Americans who are already strapped for cash by the rising price of gas and food are unable to afford these additional expenses.”  The survey found:

  • 34% spend $300 or more per month out of their own pocket for caregiving expenses.
  • 54%  have sacrificed spending money on themselves to pay for care of their parents.

(1 to 4 of 4)

ChasingChaos said
Oct 29, 2008

My aunt recently passed away. A week ago to be exact. I have been her caregiver for the past 6 months, 24/7 with the assistance of my partner who also lives here. My uncle who is her nephew was put on her advance care directive as the person to make her decisions should she not be able to. In this six month period I have seen him 2 times. (as she has) He wasn't even aware that I was her for the first three weeks. My Aunt and her Doctor made an agreement in August that she would render the responsiblilies of paying bills, writing checks etc to me. She was in her sound mind when she did this. However, there was never any legal statement of this. My uncle, (well his wife actually) has now decided that I was commiting a crime. Here is my problem with this.....where was he when the electric was about to get turned off? Or when she would fall in the middle of the night? Who dispensed her meds, reminded her what day it was, changed her diaper, spoon fed her? watched her die? Now I haven't been given 5 minutes to grieve and I am already under attack.

Do I have any legal rights in this matter or am i just a criminal?
HELP

care4rparents said
Oct 29, 2008

This is something that I hope our politicians will address in the near future.We, as caregivers should also become more active in spreading awareness about this crisis. I want to add that Medicare only covers about 100 days in a nursing facility after a doctor deems the stay necessary. If you're looking at long term care such as: hiring caregiving agencies, residential board and care facilities or assisted living, it's all out-of-pocket. This is the stress that we have and currently there are no easy solutions for. Respite care helps, but it's not enough.

~Rose Broyles

care4rparents said
Oct 29, 2008

ChasingChaos, I'm sorry for your loss. Advanced Directives only apply to medical decisions. A living trust and/or Power of Attorney is what you would have needed to legally take over her finances. I don't think you were committing a crime. For it to be criminal, you would have had to commit some kind of financial abuse. But to be sure you should consult an Attorney.

Yolanda said
Jul 28, 2009

Hello - I have written before about my mom's caregiving expenses and have started the ball rolling so to speak on seeing if my mom will quality for what they call Medi-Medi program. She is 80 years of age, had a stroke 4 years ago, 24 hr. care required right now, living with my husband and I, owns no property. Initially I was taking care of her for around a month full time til I got very ill. We went through an agency, that became a hassle because their caregiver's were unreliable. We met a wonderful caregiver who we are paying "under the table". That is the only way we are able to keep someone affordable, is reliable, and my mom likes her. We also trust her, she is like family.
The problem (maybe): The Social Worker will be coming out. She has taken my husband's and my Soc. Security numbers. They mentioned seeing bank statements. Will they be inspecting for payments going out for caregiving expenses over the past year or so? It may be a problem for us.
thanks, from O.C. California

Add Your Comment

Only helpful tips, support, and guidance should be entered here.


Must-Read Articles

How Can I Get Paid for Taking Care of My Elderly Parents?

Caregiver Survey

Where the Presidential Candidates Stand on Issues That Affect Caregivers Most

Special Pension for Care of Veterans is Often Overlooked

Medicaid's 'Cash and Counseling' Allows Pay for Family Caregivers

Ask AgingCare - Get Answers from the real experts...other caregivers

Provide additional details 140 Characters Left

Meet our Elder Care Expert

 
Aging Parents and Elder Care Expert

GabrielHeiser

K. Gabriel Heiser

Attorney, author, Medicaid asset protection planning
Antioch, Tennnessee

K. Gabriel Heiser is an attorney with over 25 years experience in elder law and estate planning. Heiser is the author of "How to Protect Your Family's Assets from Devastating Nursing Home Costs: Medicaid Secrets," an annually updated practical guide for the layperson.

Read this Expert's Bio »

Stay Informed

Sign up to receive weekly updates from AgingCare directly to your inbox.

The material of this web site is provided for informational purposes only. AgingCare.com does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment; or legal, financial or any other professional services advice. Use of this site is subject to our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.
©2010 MediaBrains Inc. All rights reserved.