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10 Steps to Increase Your Parent’s Mental Agility and Memory

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Forget almost everything you have been taught over the years about the aging human brain. Almost 70 years ago, a scientist declared that the aging brain diminished in memory, agility, and functionality while increasing in senility. Without much challenge, this theory was accepted for decades and taught as fact.

In reality, more recent studies have shown that the aging brain can continue to function actively and effectively if we recognize its needs for nutrition, challenge, reducing stress, exercise and more. “Use it or lose it,” say authors Alan D. Bragdon and David Gamon, Ph.D., in their book by the same title.

Many of today’s older adults have also been influenced by the long-time assumptions that the brain, mind and memory of an older person is a failing process. Therefore, they turn their daily lives to endless viewing of television, unhealthy eating, and increased complaining while also increasing personal stress. They abandon dreams and direction for the future.

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schulz said
Sep 26, 2008

Everything in the article is so true. My mother will be ninety, is still independent and keeps active. We do something together at least once a week but see each other every day since she lives in a apt. across the street. She comes over to my house and loves to make beds and clean out the dishwasher. It makes her feel needed.

ALaS said
Sep 27, 2008

You forget to mention that loving, tender, and thoughtful care for one's parents remain the bedrock of stimulating their minds towards a more healthy ageing. If added with remembrance of family traditions and frequent family reunions with relatives, then they will be happy and mentally active.

dolphin523 said
Feb 22, 2009

My father in law had a stroke a year ago and has dementia as well. I am home with him during the day and he stays in his room and gets up to use the bathroom, take a shower or come to the table for a meal. We go out every day to pick up the kids from school and sometimes on the weekends we go out. He doesn't talk much at all even if we try starting a conversation. He talks to his other son on Saturdays by phone but rarely leaves his bedroom. He is mobile but unsteady most of the time in walking. We use a wheelchair when we go shopping. His grandkids don't really want anything to do with him most of the time. I'm just at a loss with what to do.

NAUSEATED said
Feb 22, 2009

Hi dolphin, I too am at a loss. I love the article above, but it just does not apply at all to my father with dementia, age 74, who would rather plant his but on my couch, and not associate with anyone half the time. He's always mad at me for his own guilty feelings. Try to get him involved in jig saw puzzles, crossword puzzles, too complicated for him anymore, and he gets frustrated. The only thing he seem able to do to occupy his mind is read magazines. We do take him out shopping, or wherever we go, but it takes forever to walk through the store, because he shuffles. His grandkids also don't want much to do with him, because they never know how he is going to react to them. This morning my 12 year old daughter made him a pancake breakfast, and he says "I don't want any!" Mean crotchety old man, just because he's mad at me. Sorry, this is a letter for venting. Anyway, my point is that this does not work for some who fight EVERY issue, and don't even know why.

AgingCareEditor said
Feb 23, 2009

Check out this article from our community moderator Carol Bradley Bursack on "Keeping your Aging Parents Busy." It might have some information and advice you can use:

www.agingcare.com/Featured-Stories/133184/Keeping-Seniors-Busy.htm

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