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Counseling Options and Opportunities

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Counseling for caregivers comes in many different shapes and forms. For some, participating in Family Counseling is a great way to share feelings of inadequacy, stress and frustration. Others do better in individual therapy sessions, where they feel they can truly vent without feeling guilty.

Counseling is offered in professional therapy, or through support groups, one-on-one discussions with friends or other family members. Remember, skilled therapists can elicit insight and enhance communication between family members in all types of caregiving situations.

Other forms of counseling may be found in:

  • Respite care opportunities
  • Caregiver support groups
  • Participating in activities outside the caregiving environment

Ignoring feelings of grief, frustration or anger when dealing with home care situations will not help either the caregiver or the care receiver. Understanding that a wide range of human emotions regarding short or long-term care scenarios are normal goes a long way toward relieving such emotions in those dealing with them.

The National Institute of Mental Health suggests that caregivers try to find someone they can talk to or confide in. In this way, more than one pair of shoulders can share the emotional burden of care, regardless of scenario. In addition, if a caregiver experiences changes in eating or sleeping habits, or loses interest in aspects of life or activities they used to take pleasure in, seek help. Don't wait, expecting that things will change in a few days. Often times, days have a way of turning into weeks, and then months.

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195Austin said
Sep 2, 2008

I did not even realize how angery I was until my therpisist pointed it out and it did take a long time to learn how to cope with my problems but when she told me no one was going to recuse me which I was waiting for- I had to rescue myself which I did even though I was angery with her for telling me that- now that I have I really feel good about myself and everyone tells me how good I look and for the first time ever I am happy and content- the problems are still there but now I feel I can deal with them and still have a life besides being a caregiver,

anne123 said
Jun 5, 2010

This article recommends finding someone we caregivers can talk to openly about our challenges with caring for our elders. I have found that it is more helpful for me to express myself on this forum than with friends. That's why I feel that agingcare.com is such a necessary and productive resource.

MrsGrasshopper said
Jun 5, 2010

I appreciate the advice and understanding I receive from this program. My mother is 97 years old with dementia. She is becoming more and more beligerent and helpless at the same time. I know I need to get out more if not for my sake for my husband's sake. He helps me so much and puts up with her behavior. I can afford to get away but I am always afraid a cargiver will abuse her while I am away any length of time. How do you overcome this feeling. I feel that I am now seriously endangering my mental and physical health.

JamesJHC said
Jun 5, 2010

I feel like I am about to go crazy!!!! My mother was diagnosed with Dementia two years ago. I try going to school and work, plus make sure she is taken care of. She is a very needy person and had every medical problem she sees on tv. Sometimes I'm not sure if the problems are real or just a way to get attention. I don't have family close by, so this leaves me to try and handle everything. She lives with me, and gets very angry if I don't spend every minute with her. I keep taking her to the doctor and they say that nothing is wrong with her. What do I do now?

spiralli said
Jun 5, 2010

Oh I totally get the hypochandriac mother thing! Mine is exactly the same, its really hard, I feel for you SO much.

I need to see a therapist but my insurance does not cover it. Do any of you have any suggestions? I need someone who is aquainted with Dementia care giving. Help Please and Thank you!

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